Ok so you are down, hurt, suffering from the pain after telling that 'its over' which was supposed to be or atleast you have planned to be for life time.
Well you see that if you believe that why this is happening with you, then it's obvious because our generation, is the first of mankind to face such a situation of unsuccessful relationships to be one of the prime reasons amongst others to be unhappy.
Now why these relationship problems arise.
To get a closer look if, somewhere we feel it like a duty, I have to call, i have to meet, i have to say i love you, or even we get emotional Nd romantic Nd say a lot of emotional words, which comes later in our Facebook shares as 'I laugh at these things now'. Others like to stay more casual, 'ok, ya m in a relationship'
In all cases it's so trained and frankly artificial, and as we are enjoying the 2017 trends now, we have learnt unknowingly to control our expression and emotions, our eyes our body language, which is one of the best ways to express and adds a special charm or existence in our words.
Now, take a deep a breadth, It's Ok ! Its fine. You are atleast still able to read this post, so atleast you are existing. That's a very good thing.
Otherwise you might be busy in building up your future and trying to look yourself in your favourite car after 5 or more years. To them all the best guys. You will achieve something quite different from others but very special to you.
Finally for the one and probably many one who is scared, disrupted, destroyed from inside after staying in one or more small, big 'relationship(s)'
Did you wrote the alphabet order perfectly at the first time ?
Haven't you ever fell from any stairs while waving them up or down ?
Haven't you ever seen a bird flying with pride in the sky ?
Well every answer will be no out here, as every thing is so natural and is simply ok with us. So a relationship or love is as natural as anything which we make or gets so complicated and turns into hell in a lot of people's life.
It's ok if you were dumped, or you might have ditched. Who doesn't does this today ? Hello, we are in 2017, and the time is to ruin and win in a harsh fact. Nd as we have all read in history books. A trend dosen't come in a flick, its matter of deep timing and social changeover. So if it's like that we need to go on. Don't feel shy, or scared to trust once more, yes trust is a proper thing, might be broken easily, but it's also the only thing that can 'hold children in front of 1000 guns'
An old proverb of 'She is just herself' properly suggests that a person who would be in some different connects with you (might be mentally, if you ever come or try to know) and will not pretend to you anyway, if he/she cares for you he/she will show, if he/she misses you, will knock you however, wants to meet will just take you away. People who do care will show you, yes obviously you give them that little space to take you up and pull you away.
Try to give some more chances to people, as obviously 'If you don't find, take it make it as you are. As yes surely everyone do show there feelings, and special attractions, while they are in yet so natural but different relationships.
